Beyond Cancel Culture: Building Real Community for Founders
I once got kicked out of a mastermind I helped build.
Not because I stopped showing up. Not because I was failing in business. But because I released a podcast.
It was a hard episode. My friend had gone through something dark and devastating. His choices wrecked his life, his marriage, and his reputation. A year later, he wanted to share his story. Not to excuse it, but to shine some light into a dark space.
I wasn’t defending him. I wasn’t justifying anything. I was simply giving him a platform to tell his story of struggle and redemption.
And that’s when it happened. People got nervous. Some leaders in the industry felt triggered. Fear spread, reputations were at stake, money was on the line. Pressure built. And instead of standing with me, the group pushed me out.
That’s cancel culture at work. Quick judgment. Little context. No grace.
And it cost me. But it also set me free.
Why I Started The Pond
That moment clarified something for me: I never wanted to be part of a community that turned its back the moment things got uncomfortable.
I wanted to build something different.
A community where people don’t get canceled without a conversation. Where hard stories are given space instead of being silenced. Where relationships matter more than reputations. Where founders can be fully human, not just polished versions of themselves.
That’s why I started The Pond.
It’s not a mastermind. It’s not a networking group. It’s a family for founders.
The Staple of The Pond
At the center of The Pond are two Founders Calls every month.
These calls are the heartbeat. They’re where we gather as visionaries, put everything on the table, and leave with clarity and alignment. It’s not about showing off. It’s about breathing again, seeing clearly, and moving forward with purpose.
Everything else flows underneath these calls, strengthening founders and their teams in practical, ongoing ways.
The Sub-Ponds and Supporting Calls
Here’s how it looks today:
Weekly Sales Training Call: live role-plays with salespeople from across the country. Iron sharpens iron. Every week you get sharper, more confident, and better equipped to lead your team.
Monthly Marketing Call: a space for visionaries and their teams. I’ve sent my own marketing manager into these calls, and she’s come back with clarity, insight, and action steps from both the leader and peers in the group. The ripple effect has been huge.
Monthly Integrator/GM Call: designed for the second-in-command. It gives integrators and general managers practical tools to lead, manage, and hold people accountable more effectively, taking pressure off the founder and developing stronger leadership inside the company.
And the vision doesn’t stop there. As The Pond grows, we’re adding more Collaborators and eventually building out 12 Sub-Ponds: six focused on Impact (sales, marketing, recruiting, systems, leadership, finance) and six focused on Peace (faith, health, family, relationships, mindset, emotional clarity).
What It Feels Like
It feels like family dinners where the kids run around and the conversations stretch late into the night.
It feels like retreats where you can finally take the mask off.
It feels like knowing you can share the truth (even the messy truth) and still belong.
It feels like breathing again.
Why It Matters
Cancel culture is loud, fast, and ruthless. But real community is slow, steady, and faithful.
The Pond is the opposite of cancel culture. It’s a place where leaders can be honest about what they’re walking through and know the community won’t run at the first sign of discomfort.
And it’s not just encouragement, it’s structure and rhythm. Founders Calls at the core, with Sub-Ponds and supporting calls underneath, that builds founders and their teams up week after week.
Because true community doesn’t just celebrate your wins. It helps you grow. It sharpens you. And it walks with you through the valleys.
My Invitation
If you’ve ever been burned by shallow groups that folded when things got hard, I get it.
The Pond was born out of that pain. And it’s becoming the community I wish I had back then: a family of founders who have each other’s backs, no matter what.
If that resonates with you, I’d love for you to be part of it.
The water’s warm, come join us.
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